Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

Tuesday, January 14, 2014

The Whirlwind of December!

While some of you may know or read some of the details in yesterdays post, here is a little run down of my life in December.  Be prepared that this is really long and I didn't go back through and proof read!!

On the Saturday after Thanksgiving, I ended up in the Waverly ER with terrible stomach aches.  After a couple of unsuccessful cat scans, the surgeon and doctor decided to admit me to the hospital to try and figure out what was going on.  The stuff that you drink before a cat scan wasn't going through me so they thought I had an obstructed bowel or twisted intestines, neither of which were good situations.  I had the pain a couple of times before and it all worked itself out so they thought maybe if I got relaxed enough, things would untwist or work themselves out.  This was not the case!  My pain continued to be uncontrolled and continued to escalate.  I finally was given another pain medicine that knocked me out at least so I could get some sleep.  Whoever says morphine is a wonder drug, I strongly disagree!

I spent Saturday night, all day Sunday, and Monday morning in Waverly.  Monday morning Xrays showed that nothing had moved through my GI tract and the doctors finally decided to transfer me to Iowa City for at least some more observation and the possibility that they could figure something out.  Before I went, I had to have a nose tube put in.  To say the least, this isn't a very pleasant procedure!

I was transferred to the Iowa City Hospitals via ambulance, which may be the roughest ride ever---right up there with Gavin's truck.  Upon arrival, we (the ambulance guys and myself weren't exactly sure where I was supposed to be).  My papers said the pediatric unit, which they thought was wrong considering I am 23.  I tried to explain to them that I am typically followed by pediatrics due to my birth defect.  Ya, birth defect.  I have a condition in which all of my organs are backwards.  It is called Total Situs Inversus.  Yes, my heart is on the opposite side of my body and no I do not do the Pledge of Allegiance any differently than you. :-)  Typically, if you have any issues with this, it is while your are a baby, meaning the pediatricians know more about it and why they follow me.  Once in my room, in the pediatric unit, I was hooked up to all sorts of monitors and greeted by a team of residents.  Have you ever seen the show House where like 6 doctors come in and surround your bed.  This is what it was like in my room every time they came in.  I wasn't exactly happy to see them, as they all wanted a chance to push on my stomach which caused me to want to punch them.  Each time they came in, they would do their thing, go directly outside of my room and meet with Dr. Pitcher, my surgeon, and then they would all come back in and Dr. Pitcher would talk to me.

His first conversation with me was a little scary!  He let me know that he had seem my scans before I had got there and he was worried about several things he saw.  He was pretty sure that my intestines were twisted but he also thought that there were some things that were not where they belonged.  Remember when I said most issues were when you were a baby.....not with me.  Up until this point in my life, the doctors have thought I would live completely normal and were under the understanding that all of my organs had totally rotated.  He also informed me that he had called for emergency surgery and it was going to be classified Class A, meaning I would be the next one in the operation room.  At this point I went into a little bit of freak out mode as my parents nor Gavin were at the hospital.  I wasn't even sure if they were on their way yet.  After a couple of calls, I learned that my parents were in the building but Gavin had just left Waverly.  Total bummer!  Dr. Pitcher continued to inform me about the surgery and his news continued to get worse.  After reviewing my scans again he didn't feel that he could do surgery through a scope and was going to have to do an abdominal incision.  I immediately argued this point and begged for the scope.  Come on! I wear a swimming suit the entire summer.  A scar was not what I wanted.  Evidently keeping me alive meant a little more than me not wanting a scar and my parents told the doctor to do what he needed to do.  This led to a small argument with my dad, right in front of the surgeon----he was taken a little off guard but promised to try the scope first.  With all the drugs, I didn't realize at this point how serious my condition was.  The nurses quickly prepped me and ran me and my bed through the halls. This was seriously the most hectic thing ever!!!

Once in the operating room, I realized the surgeons were pretty excited about what was going on.  Excited in a way that this was the first time they had seen this, which meant I had LOTS of residents and surgeons looking on.  In fact, I was in the observation room which had a window with more people looking on.   Slightly overwhelming.....just took some large deep breaths in through the mask and I was out!

I woke up in the recovery room 2 hours later and was in so much pain that they put me right back under.  My second time waking up was a little better and after a chat with the nurse, she wheeled me up to my room.  I was met there by Gavin, my parents, and my aunt and uncle.  Bless there souls, because I was a little bit of a mess.  They let me know right away that the scope wasn't a success and my incision was a little bit larger than even what they though it was going to be.  Bigger...meaning like 8 inches of them cutting through 7 layers of tissue.  Before bed, pain management was the goal.  My parents had gotten a hotel so left when things calmed down a little.  Gavin had planned to stay but we learned that "boyfriends" are not welcome overnight on the pediatric floor.  To say he was a little wound up is an understatement.  Even when you're 23 & 29, they treat you like a ped.

Through surgery, we learned that my small intestine has grown inside a pocket of my large intestine my entire life--a complication of my organs being reversed.  I was feeling so much pain because the hole they fell into was contracting/closing and cutting off blood supply to my intestines causing them to twist.  Apparently this isn't something to mess around with and I am lucky to be alive.  Dr. Pitcher also found that I have some veins and arteries running over organs instead of under them, which could be dangerous if anyone else would ever cut into me.  This little detail wound me up with a medical bracelet....yipee.  He also removed my appendix during surgery so that I wouldn't ever have to be opened for complications with it.

The night was rough but Tuesday rolled around and my room filled with flowers.  My stomach ache was gone but the pain from surgery and my incision was intense.  My morphine button became my friend and I waited for it to light up every 15 minutes.  I typically hate, refuse, and don't even consider medicine and try and tough it out but that wasn't an option.  For the next couple of days, things continued to get better.  I wasn't allowed any food or even a drink of water until Wednesday night.  For those of you that think I have looked a little thin, this is why!  Getting that darn nose tube out was the best thing ever!!!  I've never been so happy to just get a swig of water.

Because my small intestine was compromised in four different locations, the true sign if those spots survived was to see if my GI tract got up and running again.  Yes, this means that in order to see if I was okay, I had to have a bowel movement.  I have never had so many people ask me this question in my life.  As soon as it happened though, I was out the door.  The ride home was a little less than desirable to say the least.

The next week led to lots of laying around and attempting to not over do it.  Wednesday I noticed that the top part of my incision looked infected, hurt, and was kind of red.  Gavin and I made a trip to Iowa City to have it looked at and the doctor stuck a needle in my incision (since it had just been cut, it was painless) to see what was in there.  He extracted 10cc of pus meaning that it was infected.  His hope was to put me on an antibiotic and it would do the trick.  I woke up Thursday morning though to it being twice as big and really red.  My grandparents drove me back down to Iowa City that morning and he ended up having to open it up.  It didn't exactly feel good and seeing a large hole in your stomach is a little gut wrenching.  He had to open more than he was expecting and I ended up with a hole 4 inches long, an inch deep, and an inch wide.  The moment that they had the pus drained though, I was pain free.  I didn't realize how much pain I was in because of the infection, not because of surgery.  I felt soooo much better after this was done.  I learned how to pack it with gauze and we headed home.  For the first week, it took about a yard of gauze to fill my wound and had to be done twice a day.  After about two weeks though, it finally started to show some growth and the swelling and infection were gone.  When I was cleared to walk/jog, it really started to close. 

 I can finally say,  4 weeks and two days after getting cut back open, it is closed and I am fully cleared!  I made my last trip to Iowa City yesterday and my doctor released me and told me I can do whatever I want.  I have been running at The W but this morning I completed my first Next Level Extreme Fitness class and felt great!  This is four weeks sooner than what they initially told me and I couldn't be more excited.

Thank you for all of your thoughts and prayers over these past two months.  All in all, I missed 15 days at school and it was just as painful to be away from my kids for that long.  It certainly was unexpected but I am back to my normal routine and feeling great!  I wouldn't have been able to do it with out you all!


Monday, January 13, 2014

2013 as I Know It

Holy Moly!  I know I haven't been on here since August.  Life just went and happened and well blogging didn't exactly run across my mind.  To say I wasn't busy, overwhelmed at times, or just simply enjoying life is an understatement!  I do think this is going to take a more personal level with some teacher stories as we have some rather exciting things taking place this year.  

Here goes a recap of August-September.  Several events are going to take completely different posts.  And I am planning to regularly blog to keep track of this year so keep an eye out for some new ones.  I seem to have lots of ideas.

August:
I began my dream job at Waverly-Shell Rock as a 1st grade teacher at Carey Elementary.  Call me a home body but I love this town, the people in it, and the small town atmosphere it has to offer.  The 7 minute drive compared to the 40 minute one to Sumner has been awesome. I truly miss Sumner and the great people I worked with!  22 innocent minds greet me each morning and bring something new to each day.  I can honestly say I continue to love my job!

September:
Gavin and I traveled to Colorado again this year to another Davis wedding.  If Gavin's company wasn't rooted in the Cedar Valley, I would beg on a daily basis to move to Fort Collins.  It is beautiful, full of fit and active people, and the mountains just make my heart melt.  I love that place!  The wedding was amazing and we witnessed Greek traditions that were so much fun.  Bill and Haley looked stunning and we wish we were closer to them all!

October:
Hawkeye Football may not have always been real great but we certainly had fun going to the games with some stellar friends.  We traveled to Iowa City and Minnesota to watch the Hawks.  The first game was one of the hottest days of my life and the Minnesota game was just about the opposite.  To say I am a fair weather fan may be an understatement.

November:
The holidays crept up on use quickly and we prepped for Thanksgiving and the onslaught of Christmases that were just around the corner.  I can't recall anything major that happened this month....that is until the very last stinking day...that I could go without.

The first week of December.  Warning: this will probably turn into a novel!
The Saturday after Thanksgiving, I got a stomachache shortly before dinner.  Gavin and I were planning on walking over to Nate and Ker's to watch a basketball game and lay low for the night.  Shortly after dinner, I found myself curled into a ball on the couch with terrible pain.  I had this pain earlier in the week and thought it would go away in a couple of hours like it did last time.  Long story short, at 2am after pacing around our house, laying on every piece of furniture we have swearing it would feel better, I crawled to the bed and asked Gavin to take me to the Waverly E.R.  After drinking three disgusting glasses of stuff (I never remember what its called) and two cat scans later, the radiologist and ER doctor knew something didn't look right and admitted me to the hospital for further observation. 

On Sunday, I continued to have uncontrolled pain and don't remember that day at all other than swearing the morphine wasn't doing a thing.  I called my principal to let her know I wouldn't be there Monday but I'd be back on Tuesday.  Joke was on me!  Monday morning's X-ray showed that my intestines were possibly twisted and I was going to be transferred to Iowa City as soon as possible.

Before I got to Iowa City, the surgeon had looked at my scans and saw some things he really didn't like and called for emergency surgery.  This whole story will become another post in the near future as it is a novel in itself.  In a nutshell, I ended up having major abdominal surgery Monday afternoon.  Landed myself an awesome 8 inch incision down the middle of my stomach and learned some things about my body that we never knew about.  Things weren't where they should have been and have been there my whole life.  The doctors informed me that leaving them that way much longer could have been grim and I am lucky to be alive!

I had surgery on Monday and was release on Friday.  The drive home was the worst ride I have ever been apart of and I seriously wondered why I was excited to go home.  

I missed out on deer hunting.  Total bummer...cry fest...  Gavin went with my dad and I hung out with my mom for the day.  We had Christmas at our house on Sunday, where I hid out upstairs to hide from any germs that may make me sneeze, cough, or puke.  Those things made me want to claw my own eyes out they hurt so bad.

Later that week, my incision got infected and ended up having to be reopened.  I'll fill you in on all of those details later as well.  Having a 4 inch hole in the middle of your stomach takes some getting used to it.  Packing it with gauze was a learning experience.  And hearing the doctor say it was going to take 2 months to close was disturbing.  My fear of a brutal scar also led to some serious sob fests.  Mr. Wonderful attempted to reassure me I could rock the scar.  I still doubt him.

Christmas rolled around in a fury!  I began to feel better the week of Christmas and was feeling up to getting out of the house finally.  I got cleared to walk that week as well and just being in the gym made me feel better.  Christmas is my favorite time of the year and will not forever hold a special place in my heart.

The love of my life proposed after Christmas Eve service at my parents house.  You just read that right. We are finally engaged!!  After almost five years of dating and countless pep talks, Gavin got down on one knee and asked me to marry him!  I couldn't be more excited to spend the rest of my life with my best friend and am so excited to see where life takes us.

August 30, 2014 will officially begin our journey as Mr. and Mrs. Steege!  (That is going to take some serious getting used to!  But I think I can handle it ;-)

I will leave you with that for now and will be back soon for detailed surgery and engagement/wedding details!